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I Fuck Other Men To Please My Husband, but I Love It, Too
Why Should I Not Enjoy His Kink?
Going from the Swinger to Hotwife Lifestyle was an easy shift for me.
When Mark and I decided to allow each other to swing separately, he started calling me a “Hotwife.” At that time I didn’t even know that it was a lifestyle. I thought that he was just teasing me with the fun moniker: “Hot Wife.”
I soon discovered that my husband loves knowing that I’m fucking other guys. I never imagined that there was even such a thing as a Stag Husband who liked his wife to have sex with other men. It’s counter-intuitive to everything I was ever taught about marriage or sexuality.
But, here I am doing it. I never cheat. It’s always on the up and up, with Mark’s full permission. He knows what kind of adventure I’m on and with whom, every lustful step of the way.
Seeing photos of me having sex with male friends with benefits or reading what I write about doing it makes him happy and horny. I don’t know why.
He can’t explain the reason any more than I can figure it out. But I reap the side benefits of getting to fuck other men without any of the guilt. Truth is, I have more guilt about eating a piece of chocolate cake. O! The calories!
So, why do I do it?
I fuck other men because my husband wants me to. But, he loves it and so I do it.
If I were single I would still be having sex, but it would be different. It might be for fun or a possible commitment. But I’ve already got my commitment to being Mark’s Hotwife.
He enjoys it and gets a kind of satisfaction that I appreciate, although I don’t exactly understand it. He has told me that when he reads my descriptions of hotwife dates it’s almost as if he’s in the room watching. He feels the thrill of the entire sexual event.
I always make sure that the guy I’m with is comfortable with my taking photos or videos. Some guys get even more turned on taking pictures of us having sex, knowing that Mark will be viewing them.
I’ve also allowed him to date other women since we’ve been married. It’s only fair that I give him that freedom. But I’m not like him. I don’t want to hear details, and I definitely don’t want to see pictures.
I don’t mind knowing where they went to dinner or which hotel they were at. But I don’t want to know the play-by-play of his date or what she looked like. I’m content knowing that he had a good time and happy that he’s back home with me after a sexy jaunt with another lady.
That’s how Mark and I are different when it comes to the Hotwife lifestyle, and I embrace our differences. I wouldn’t want it any other way.
As long as Mark enjoys it and my good health ensues, I’ll be enjoying these extra-curricular “fuck dates.” And I’ll continue sharing the stories with Mark — and with you, the reader.
